"My mother-in-law to be is a drunk and she is barely in her sons life. She has never tried to get to know me or me aand her sons relationship. But today she texted me saying she thinks that we are rushing into marriage. We're both 18. He's in basic training. We've known each other for 2 years and have been dating for almost 1 whole year. We don't plan on getting married until next year at the end of the summer. Help ! He's said that he will choose me over her anyday but I feel bad ..?"
Maybe you need to attempted to sit down and explain your plans to her (I know how hard this may be, I was in a serious relationship with someone and his mother was also a drunk) If that doesn’t work than I wouldnt worry about it. If that is what YOU want to do, than do it! Make yourself happy before anyone else!