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Question from kelleykaitlyn:I’m sixteen years old, and in love with my marine boyfriend. for the first time in my life I can honestly say I love someone. But he’s stationed in NC and I start to apply to college’s soon. I’ve dreamed of going to Cali for 6 years, but I want to be with him and he wants to be in NC, and has to for 3 more years. I don’t know what to do, because people may think I’m crazy but I know hes the love of my life and I cant imagine being with out him… what do I do?

  1. mmyheart answered: You be open && honest with him. If the love is truly there, then you’ll make it through. I’m engaged to my marine who’s deployed in Afghan
  2. iheartmyairman answered: My boyfriend is in Italy for 2 more years and I’m 18. Going to school next year… You can get through this! Your education is important!
  3. jessiipage answered: i don’t know how long you guys have been together, but if you really love him then I would go to a school in NC. but don’t not go to scool
  4. iishould-havealong-url-cuzimcool answered: im in college and my fiance is in the army.. im following my dreams while he follws his.. after college, i will be able to follow him
  5. birdsdontflysolo answered: i’m engaged to a marine but it isn’t changing my college plans. for a few years at least, i’ll be in college and he’ll be stationed somewhere
  6. loveyouandprovideforyou answered: Live your dream, go out there and get your college done. youve supported him in everything, now its his turn to support you.
  7. whinehouse answered: it is 100% possible to follow your dreams while still supporting him in his. do your own thing, the love will still be there.
  8. elihearts answered: Honey, go to school, get your degree…you won’t regret it. You’ve got forever to be with him; take care of your own future now.
  9. ilovejetnoise answered: you need to do you before and if its meant to be he’ll wait, like youve been waiting for him. youll resent him later if you dont go to school
  10. mslilwilson answered: idk if im going to get hate male or not but if he is the love of your life but his needs before your own. i gave up my dream of USAF for mine
  11. greattperhaps answered: If your love is strong, then you’ll be able to make it through the distance. You’ll never regret following your dreams.
  12. sicknastybestfriend answered: Go to California, definitely. I was in this situation too. He’s doing what he has tot do, so you do what you have to do.
  13. ivannalexxa answered: I would suggest 4 u 2 follow your dream! If you guys r meant to be, distance will be nothing compared 2 the love you guys have 4 eachother♥
  14. thelunarmaria answered: There should be no question in your mind that going to school in NC near him is the right choice. Your heart isn’t in the right place.
  15. littlebookbigpage answered: It would be crazy to base your college decision on him. When the time comes, if you’re in California, he can re-enlist for Camp Pendleton.
  16. itssuchalifetoremember answered: Ive lived in NC my whole life, and i cant tell you how my wonderful colleges there are here. but at the same time its your dream.
  17. countyourstrides answered: Don’t let someone stop you from what you wanna do. If its meant to work out, It always will. if it doesnt, wasnt meant to be.
  18. ohheyitsripley answered: Go to Cali. You both deserve to live out your dreams. True love understands & lasts through the distance.
  19. misspeanuthead answered: follow your dreams!! if he doesn’t support you he isn’t the one!
  20. illaskforthesea answered: I’m 18 and I just got married. I love my life but looking back I wish I would have pursued my dreams. Follow YOUR dreams. Don’t ask “what if”
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  22. our-love-is-army-strong answered: follow your dreams, i’ve given up a lot of opportunities and i wish i wouldn’t have. if he is really the love of your life, he’ll be waiting
  23. mythoughtsscreamingforattention answered: I’m not going to lie, you seem a bit young for military life…im not judging but you need to be able to keep up with him and his career
  24. midshipmanschmidt answered: My bf is an Airman stationed in TX, and I’m a midshipman in NJ. Trust me, if you love each other, it”ll work. We’ve been together 3 years.
  25. ohmy-imagination answered: Follow your dreams.. don’t give them up for him.
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