Submissions are CLOSED at this time! but don't worry, you'll still see them around!
Would you like me to post my military related videos on here or no?
"you're smart so you've probably already considered this but it was probably one of this blogs supporters that impersonated you, not someone who wants to wreck this blog. it's obviously someone who likes and follows this blog, because they know how you sound and how you sign your posts with the "Xoxo". i'm pretty sure it's someone who is obsessed with this blog and wants to see the other one go down."
I had figured as much, but regardless, it still belittled me extremely, caused more drama than ever between the blogs AFTER that was already finished, and really made me rethink this decision and the blog.. Mostly, it hurt me, not gonna candy coat it. I want people to let me handle my own problems. I’m capable of doing so.
"I had no idea you took over the blog from someone else! when did that happen?"
Yes i did, the original owner and creator gave me the blog almost a year ago!
The fact that this is my get a way when my fiance is gone and now its a huge ball of drama makes me sick to my stomach. I don’t even want to get on tumblr anymore. I haven’t even been uploading confessions.
I put my heart into this blog, responding to questions, making confessions, talking one on one to you all.. I spend at least five hours a day on this blog.. on top of being a full time student, keeping a 3.5 GPA, having a family life/problems, keeping up with two youtube channels, having horrible health, and trying to have a social life.
I put a hell of a lot on the back burner for this blog..
The fact that someone would IMPERSONATE me, go onto a blog and start drama is illegal, disrespectful, and disgusting.
To anyone that was hurt, offended, or upset by any of the posts on N-Y-A militaryconfessions from “Sarah-Xo” That was NOT me
I’m 100% completely sorry.
I don’t sit here and give out my info and life for the hell of it.. i do it to interact with you, so you guys know who I am, so you trust me, since I deal with such important confessions, such close things to you guys.. can’t some people respect that..?
I never thought someone would go as far as basically stealing my identity (as it feels) to degrade this community, this blog, and others feelings…
From now on.. if you don’t get an ask, question, message from this blog or amarinesgirl33 then it ISNT me
I’m really sorry its like this now, I think I may need a few days to think some things over though, it may be time for a new owner on the blog.
To those of you who have stayed loyal and have supported me throughout this whole journey, thank you and I’m sorry.
& btw, there is no drama between this blog and the other! Everything has been worked out laddies and gents.
Xoxo- Sarah
"Are you kidding me? Why would someone ask you to ask someone else blog to post less. Just because you're a confession blog doesn't mean it's the same. They do confessions for more than just people with a SO. People submit there to get it off their chest just like people do with your blog. Military members who don't have an SO have things to say just like anyone else. I don't understand the hate that goes with that blog. Do people not like what the submissions say? Don't blame the blog for that."
I think there was a lot of hate going around, a lot of people were offended. Regardless, there shouldn’t be hate!
"I hope you don't get mad at me for saying this but I really don't like n-y-a-militaryconfessions and how they post so much. I hope enjoyed your time with your man but I also hope that you take the spotlight back from that blog because this blog is so much better. I know you said you talked to the owner. Do you think you could ask them to post less often?"
anon, I’m not mad, you’re entitled to your own opinion. The only thing I ask, is what I ask of all who say this-please don’t send hate to the blog. I enjoyed my time with Ian, thank you so much (: It was nice, but short. I will be back on a schedule and try my very hardest to get more confessions up daily.. please understand that my health hasn’t been very well.. I did talk to the owner and at first I got a response, but as soon as I asked what we could do to make both blogs work I never heard anything back.. so I’m honestly not sure. There are just a lot of things to the situation that I don’t want to answer publicly, if you want to talk about it feel free to message me off anon! Xoxo-Sarah
"I sent the message in about planning a wedding. The first deployment. He failed to mention he's married. Has a fiancee. Two children. And two other girlfriends. The fiancee contacted me and apologized. He broke me heart. :'("
oh my god.. are you kidding me? I am so sorry :/ I know this is a stupid question but are you okay? :( How long had this been going on if you don’t mind me asking. ohmygosh.. I hope she learns from this as welll.. if you ever need to talk feel free to message me on my other blog personally so it’s not all over the place. it’s amarinesgirl33
"We're planning a wedding. Already set the date. We haven't been together for years, but we're in love, even though I'm still in highschool.. This is the first deployment I'm going through with him.. How do I handle it? The missing him? Please help!!!"
Keep yourself busy!! Planning a wedding is a lot of work!! Especially alone, and you’re my age, so I understand (: get friends together to look at dresses and get some ideas, it can be fun. Make a youtube channel if thats what your into, you can talk about wedding stuff, military girlfriend things, vlog, anything really (: tumblr is full of girls to talk to! Go out with friends, have some time to yourself, focus on school, write tons of letters, enjoy making care packages for your love. There is plenty to do, just keep yourself occupied!
"HELP! I live in California and recently got accepted into two schools in Miami& a scholarship to one of them for $52,000. My boyfriend is getting stationed in San Diego, California.If i stay in California & go to community college down there, I'd be able to see him every week but if I choose to move to Miami, we'd probably rarely get to talk&see each other because of the time difference& i'd be busy with school.We're unbelievably so passionate&in love with each other,but i don't know what to do!"
Congratulations!! Thats amazing!!! I’m so happy for you, you have no idea. Honestly, I struggled with this for a long time. It’s hard. It’s like you have this amazing opportunity right at your fingertips.. but you don’t know which way is the right way to go. If you can, go visit the colleges, see which one you feel safer at, which one you can see yourself living at, making more friends at, enjoying the classes at, more. The decision needs to be based on YOU and YOUR future, and although this may upset him at first, he will understand. I know it’s hard, I ended up making the decision to not go to college near my man. Live for yourself, your goals, your dreams, YOU! If you love him, if you are passionate for him and he is for you ONE DAY it will work out so that you two can and will be happily together with NOTHING to interrupt Good luck, take some time to think about it, but don’t stress.
Xoxo-Sarah
"I'm a senior in high school. My boyfriend *was* in his second semester at a college near by, he is 19 . He was supposed to be discharged from the marine corps in January when he broke his ribs in December. On top of that, he Didn't want to go anymore and there was no way out of it. Last Saturday his recruiter called him and said he was leaving the next day. I was devastated I didn't say goodbye to him. He snuck his phone into Bootcamp at Paris island. He texted me Tuesday night now depressed"
He is. I’m scared of this whole situation. Everything has happened so fast. I’ve wrote 5 letters and I’m still waiting to get his address. Him and I were completely unprepared for this fuxked up situation. What do I do to make this easier. I’m lost
So I’m pretty sure these two messages go together, and if they don’t I’m very sorry! Just try to calm down and keep him calm, everything will be okay, and there will be a turn around, you both just need to stay positive Keep encouraging him that he will get through this, you will too!!
