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Confession #575: I’m not with him because hes a Marine or because of his tags, money, rank or benefits..I don’t need any of that i make my own money and have my own benefits. im with him because I LOVE HIM inside & outside of his uniform.
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Confession #574: I hate that my best friend will leave in two years. he’s one of the few people that gets me and the navy is going to take him away. I HATE IT.
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Confession #573: I’m on of your bestfriends, it kills me inside watching you deal with the drama the girl back home puts you through. She’s your ex for a reason. Open your eyes and give me a chance, please. It could be amazing.
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"Hi! My bf's in the Army and we've been together, for awhile. Lately, though, I've been getting this feeling he's not over his ex. Though it's been about 3-4 yrs, since he's been with her, I get a sense he's not over her. Since he's in the military, idk if I should confront him about it, bcuz he has long days and he's far, and I don't want to bring out drama - thats the last thing he'd want after all he goes through. Am I just being petty or do I have every reason to talk about it? Thank you!"
You are not being petty at all! It’s your relationship and you want to make sure that everything is working out! Completely normal. In situations like this, I always tell the person to confront their so. I understand that he has a long day at work and it’s truly hard to have a good conversation with the distance, but you deserve to be on the same page and let him know how you feel! I always say don’t accuse him, because that may start a fight. but let him know how you feel. IF he says he does have some sort of feelings, or it is really bothering you I think you should give him the option… You or her, he can only have one of you, that’s just how it is! Stay strong <3
"My bf and I have been together for a year and were best friends for 2 years before that. We've talked about our future a lot and decided we're getting married within the next few years. This is his last deployment. He's been in Afghanistan only a week but we never talk anymore. We've Skyped for a max of 5mins and all he does is ask for cookies and pics (naked and normal ones). Then he's tagged in his roommates gfs pics of him joining their Skype convos but he's too busy for me? I don't get it"
I would definitely talk to him about it the next time you are “face to face” with him. Don’t accuse him of anything, just let him know how you feel that way you two are on the same page and you can work everything out! I’m always here to talk if you need to! Stay strong <3
"I am a senior in high school and my boyfriend is in the United states Navy. He graduates bootcamp next week. But i have been thinking about joining the airforce and have meet with a recruiter, my question is how do i bring it up to him? I know it will make our relationship even harder but i still want to be with him. Ive brought up jooining the Airforce a while ago but not much was said about it. Thank you for the help."
First off, congrats to him graduating bootcamp, and to you thinking about joining the Airforce! If you really want to join, there should be nothing holding you back. I would sit down and talk to him about it (maybe not the first day he is home, just because he may still be adjusting to everything) but while you are with him. Sit down, maybe at dinner, and explain that you really want to do this for yourself. Tell him that you are aware that it may make things harder, but you have supported him and you really want his support in return. He may not like the idea at first, but he should start to support you and be proud of you! Good luck and stay strong!
"Hey! My boyfriend is in the USAF, we met whilst he was deployed in England, my home country...we just found out that in February 2013 he's being deployed back home to Arizona. We both don't want that to be the end of our relationship when he goes back home, but part of me is wondering how we'll ever make it work...we've both already said that we'd make trips out to see one another, but it's likely that will only happen a handful of times a year...I just need some advice really! Thanks :)"
Well, I’m always here for advice, so hopefully I can help! Think of it this way, me and my fiance both live in America. He lives on the West Coast, and I live on the East. We usually see each other about three or four times a year, but only supposed to see each other twice. So.. basically a handful (: A lot of girls/guys are in your situation! Just because you both are in different countries DOES NOT mean it wont work! It just may be a little further (: I’m a true believer that if it is love, then two people will go through ANYTHING to be with each other and make it work. It’s going to be hard, and sometimes it’s going to be worse than others… but like every relationship, it has it’s ups and downs. Keep your head up while he’s gone, and try your hardest to make it work! Remember, long distance relationships aren’t for everyone, and IF it doesn’t work, it’s not your fault, it just wasnt meant to be. Good luck, and stay strong! If you have any more questions feel free to ask on here or my personal blog (amarinesgirl33) I’d be more than happy to talk!
"For the anon - I got married because I loved my husband, and because it meant I could move out of my crappy home situation. I'm divorced, it didn't last more than a year. If you want to get married, make sure it's for the right reasons and look at all the schools before you go there. Also, school isn't free unless you use his GI Bill, which means he'll have to be in for 6 years, or you go to a trade school. If leaving home is the #1 reason, then I wouldn't do it."
Thank you for your answer (:
"My boyfriend in the navy just got deployed and im missing him so bad. I live in MA and hes stationed in Hawaii and I hate every second of him being so far away. Honestly i cant stop crying, we hardly get to talk becuase im still in highschool and hes on his boat and there is a 5 hour time difference. How do you deal with having your SO being so far away? I just want him home. and I know im bieng really selfish but I miss him so much :("
It’s a hard thing to do, but it’s worth it! I promise. Keep your mind set on the positive things out of the situation. Although the wait and distance suck… the kiss.. being with him.. seeing him again, it’ll all make it worth it. more than worth it! You aren’t being selfish, it’s just how it is! When you miss someone you want them there, right by your side. I always tell girls and guys to find a passion or set a goal to achieve by the time their SO gets home, it passes time well and it’ll keep your mind off of things, it’ll only better yourself in the long run as well. You’ve got this! Good luck to the both of you, and stay strong! <3
