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I have time today and wanted to get some confessions up!
I’ve posted five today and I have five on queue for tomorrow and hopefully five for everyday after that.
I’m in DESPERATE need of pictures! Please send them to my ask if you have any, it would be greatly appreciated. All pictures will have your credit and username!
until I get more pictures I’m just going to be adding people to the directory, when I do you’ll get a message!
Thanks for all the support!
Confession #584: Im scared that after you get your own place there you’ll have more free time and you’ll slowly but surly forget about me or do something you’ll regret again.
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Confession #583: I’m scared of what could happen if he leaves the Marines and chooses to enter the “real world”. The military lifestyle is all he has ever known. Though I’m even more scared of what could happen if he goes active duty in the Army instead.
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Confession #582: The stress of the Marine Corps is already giving my husband wrinkles. It sucks to get them that young but I think they are sexy.
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Confession #581: My husband reenlisted mostly so we will be comfortable financially while I go to school. Not that he would ever tell me, but I’m so worried he will hold it against me if he ends up hating this enlistment.
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Confession #580: Sometimes I worry if he’ll come back from this deployment. I cant help but the to think if he does what will be wrong with him? Ptsd? Will he be his normal self? Or will he be the monster I sometimes dream about? How will I be able to help him?
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I feel as if a lot of people confuse a military relationship to be like dear john, or the movies, and it’s not. It’s a lot of hard work, tears, and it’s just hard to be away from someone you love all of the time. It’s not a thing where you can just go pick one up.. I’m not trying to be rude at all by saying this, please don’t get me wrong. I just feel like if you want to meet one, maybe just let it happen, rather than looking for a guy in the military… Just because he is in the military doesn’t really make him any different, he’s just a guy, it shouldn’t matter whether he is in the military or not. I don’t really know how to go about finding someone in the military, since I didn’t plan to meet my fiance, nor ever thought of dating someone in the military until it happened, but I guess you could look through dating sites and add that to your interests.
2 (2): I mean, if he was home most of the time but had a 6 month deployment every few years I could handle that. But I can’t handle never seeing him. Being pregnant and having a baby alone. It hurts too much to be away from him. What do I do? idk i’m just so confused right now and idk what to do. Please help!!
I think it’s good that you are thinking about all of this before putting it all aside and jumping right into it! The best think you can do in my opinion is talk to him. Tell him you support him but you don’t know how well you’ll be able to handle these things. He may be upset at first, and it may take a thousand attempts before he’ll actually sit down and talk to you about it.. but he needs to know, he deserves to know, and you deserve to tell him! It’s not impossible though, so if you decided to go through with it, you’ve got it! and you’ll be okay! You have plenty of people who will back you up and be there for you while he can’t be. Just remember you have this WHOLE community to help you through it, and I’m here to talk as much as you need it. If you ever need anything feel free to private message me on here or my more personal tumblr. (amarinesgirl33) I wish you the best of luck. (: