Anonymous said: My boyfriend, and the man I love, just admitted that he solely wants me for sex. He wants no relationship, just sex. We've been together for six months, and he just now decides to mention this. What am I supposed to do?

Whatever you feel like doing. If you want to stay with him and enjoy sex, good; If not, it would also be good and understandable. One thing to consider is, that if there’re no feelings involved from his side, that might open the possibility of him having someone else on the side. So at the end it all comes to what you feel comfortable with. -Magdielis

Anonymous said: I feel like everyone is saying I don't deserve to call myself a milso because he isn't currently active duty...what do I do?

o_O Is this a joke?… In case you’re being serious and being labeled a “milso” is THAT important to you, I suggest you forget about the haters. From my p.o.v., if people are saying that because he is not active duty he isn’t military, they are denigrating the service member and the sacrifice he is willing to make to protect this country. Active duty or not, he is still a part of our armed forces and doing more than a lot of people does on a daily basis. On the other hand, I hope you reconsider your priorities in life. -Magdielis

Anonymous said: Hey, i am from Germany and in relationship with marine since a year. I know i have just two possibilities: To break up or to go with him back to the states. i don't know what to do. I am not sure if i am able to leave everything behind me. I love him but i never wanted to leave my home and my family. Also i am scared what happens if he have to leave for another country. Thank you and excuse me for my bad english

Well darling, in this life, there are so many things and opportunities that come our way but we always have to take a decision. Personally, I hate living thinking on the what if’s. I’m from Puerto Rico and I had to leave all my family, friends and what was known for me behind. I don’t regret it a bit but again, it is your relationship, your life and it’s your decision to make. Just think if you could live with the “what if’s” ;) -Magdielis

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jessd12 said: Hey! My name is Jessi and my boyfriend is in the National Guard. I'm in Georgia and would love to be added to the directory!

Hey Jessi your tumblr is empty, there’s nothing to tell that someone even uses it. I would like to add you but since many people follow this blog I’m not jeopardizing anyone’s security or setting them up with a blank account. With all craziness that is going on lately I’m preferring not to do it, so please excuse me. -Magdielis

P.S. If you are real and would still like to be added just message me again.

Anonymous said: Is this page active still? :/

yes! all three of our admins (sarah, magdielis, and Julie) are college/grad students so we’ve been busy with the start of the school year, but more confessions should be coming soon. (:

We received this pm… please go check them out and support the cause!

I’m trying to raise money for this non-profit with military sexual assault awareness shirts.
http://teespring.com/stores/nolongervictims
Thank you! -nolongervictimsconfessionsmst

Confession #971: Just needed to get this off my chest. I miss my fiancé. I wish it was me who’s dead and not him. Everywhere I go I see those military couples who get surprised by their partner’s homecoming and I’m just there knowing he’ll never be there. I don’t even know how to live without him. I have nothing left of him.
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Confession #971: Just needed to get this off my chest. I miss my fiancé. I wish it was me who’s dead and not him. Everywhere I go I see those military couples who get surprised by their partner’s homecoming and I’m just there knowing he’ll never be there. I don’t even know how to live without him. I have nothing left of him.

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Anonymous said: When are you guys coming back?

I can do some confessions today. Sarah can’t use social media until sometime on Sept. because of sorority recruiting or something like that. I’ll take care of it for time being. ;) -Magdielis

porte12 said: To the anon who lost their loved one, I was in that same boat going on 6 months ago. I promise you that it gets easier. Yes, you may miss them more and more every day but the pain gets easier to handle. I had amazing support from friends and I truly believe that's what's helped me move on. You'll make it, I promise. Take the time to grieve, cry, get mad and angry. Maybe write in a journal. I write letters to Noah all the time and tell him about my daily life. Your SO would want you to be happy!

Thanks for your kind a beautiful words towards our anon. I’m sorry both of you and many others are going through this, it breaks my heart. -Magdielis

Anonymous said: Just needed to get this off my chest. I miss my fiancé. I wish it was me who's dead and not him. Everywhere I go I see those military couples who get surprised by their partner's homecoming and I'm just there knowing he'll never be there. I don't even know how to live without him. I have nothing left of him.

I’m not sure if you wanted this to be a confession.. but I’m going to make it into one. I am so very sorry for your loss. I can’t describe the feeling in my stomach when I read this. I could say sorry over and over and over again and it wouldn’t amount to how i feel about this situation. I hope you realize your worth and strength and it hurts so badly to hear you say you wish you were the one that was dead. I want you to know that I admire your strength to overcome this situation and I hope you continue to do so for the rest of your life. I hope I don’t offend you by saying this, but, you will get your homecoming one day, it may be prolonged, waited on, and later than you wanted, hoped, and wished for; but one day you will meet again, and it will be a homecoming. Please stay strong, and know that I’m here to talk whenever, anon or not. I will be thinking about you. 

XOXO -Sarah