Anonymous said: Is this page active still? :/

yes! all three of our admins (sarah, magdielis, and Julie) are college/grad students so we’ve been busy with the start of the school year, but more confessions should be coming soon. (:

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Confession #971: Just needed to get this off my chest. I miss my fiancé. I wish it was me who’s dead and not him. Everywhere I go I see those military couples who get surprised by their partner’s homecoming and I’m just there knowing he’ll never be there. I don’t even know how to live without him. I have nothing left of him.
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Confession #971: Just needed to get this off my chest. I miss my fiancé. I wish it was me who’s dead and not him. Everywhere I go I see those military couples who get surprised by their partner’s homecoming and I’m just there knowing he’ll never be there. I don’t even know how to live without him. I have nothing left of him.

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Anonymous said: When are you guys coming back?

I can do some confessions today. Sarah can’t use social media until sometime on Sept. because of sorority recruiting or something like that. I’ll take care of it for time being. ;) -Magdielis

porte12 said: To the anon who lost their loved one, I was in that same boat going on 6 months ago. I promise you that it gets easier. Yes, you may miss them more and more every day but the pain gets easier to handle. I had amazing support from friends and I truly believe that's what's helped me move on. You'll make it, I promise. Take the time to grieve, cry, get mad and angry. Maybe write in a journal. I write letters to Noah all the time and tell him about my daily life. Your SO would want you to be happy!

Thanks for your kind a beautiful words towards our anon. I’m sorry both of you and many others are going through this, it breaks my heart. -Magdielis

Anonymous said: Just needed to get this off my chest. I miss my fiancé. I wish it was me who's dead and not him. Everywhere I go I see those military couples who get surprised by their partner's homecoming and I'm just there knowing he'll never be there. I don't even know how to live without him. I have nothing left of him.

I’m not sure if you wanted this to be a confession.. but I’m going to make it into one. I am so very sorry for your loss. I can’t describe the feeling in my stomach when I read this. I could say sorry over and over and over again and it wouldn’t amount to how i feel about this situation. I hope you realize your worth and strength and it hurts so badly to hear you say you wish you were the one that was dead. I want you to know that I admire your strength to overcome this situation and I hope you continue to do so for the rest of your life. I hope I don’t offend you by saying this, but, you will get your homecoming one day, it may be prolonged, waited on, and later than you wanted, hoped, and wished for; but one day you will meet again, and it will be a homecoming. Please stay strong, and know that I’m here to talk whenever, anon or not. I will be thinking about you. 

XOXO -Sarah

Anonymous said: I've been casually dating a Marine from Lejeune who's currently in Quantico doing pre-deployment training. I know he is deploying sometime next year and even though I'm not sure I could handle being a milso, all I want is to put a label on our relationship because we are rely great together. The problem is, I'm not sure he wants to put a girl through a deployment in that situation. How do I tell him I would be proud to be his girlfriend even if it started off with 8 months of loneliness?

Tell him tell him tell him! Tell him you know it’ll be hard, you know it’ll be crapy, you know it’ll be different than any other relationship you have, but let him know that it’ll be worth it. You never know what you’re capable of until you try it. if it fails, hey, you tried right? I used to say i would NEVER EVER be able to do what I do now. It’s hard being away from someone you love, but it gets a bit easier, you get used to it. You just have to focus on your life as well. If you’re great together now, you’ll be even more great when you get the chance to experience a relationship like this. You will love deeper, appreciate more, and come out stronger!!

XOXO-Sarah

Anonymous said: I'm struggling a little bit with my wife. She's training to fly A-10's and about to start in on the gun and ordinance and I'm having trouble reconciling the woman that curls up in my lap and the one who wants to "kill people and break their stuff". She was already AF when we met, so I've always known this was where it was going, but now it's here and I don't really know how to deal. I'm female, it's not a macho thing.We've talked but we're struggling to understand each other's sides. Any advice?

I’ve never got a question like this before, and I’ve never thought about it from your point of view too much. To be honest with you, I try not to.. I understand where you’re coming from, even more now that Ian has been deployed and changed a lot while he was there. Its like two sides to the person.. What I try my hardest to do, and encourage you to do, is, look at it like a job. you have a job, you have a job life and a home life. you probably mostly keep your work life and your home life separate. Try to allow her and work with her to keep her work life and home life separate. Although it seems easy, its not. Perhaps counseling would be good to talk it out or come up with different options together as to how to work on this. Its very difficult loving someone with a difficult and hard to understand job. I’m sorry if this isn’t too helpful. Just know that I’m always here to talk and I’m wishing the best for you and your wife!!

XOXO -Sarah

Anonymous said: My boyfriend is leaving for basic in October, and I'm starting college (we both graduated high school this June). I've been hearing rumors that he wants to propose to me right after basic but I'm torn. We will have been together for 2 years when he gets out and I know that I want to marry him at some point in my life, but the idea of being engaged at 18 scares me. I've kinda mentioned it to him but it just makes him sad and he keeps saying "the military makes everything different". Any advice?

Truth is, the military doesn’t make everything different. People just choose to believe that it does, or feel that it does. If you’re not ready, then you are not ready. Thats not an issue or a problem or something you should be worried about at ALL. I have a huge amount of respect that you are honest enough to know that you aren’t ready. I think you need to sit down and talk with him and tell him you want it at some point in your life, but not right now. the military only makes it different if you allow it to! Do not feel forced or obligated to do this, do it when you’re ready or it won’t feel right!!

XOXO-Sarah

Veteran Resources

Love your page! Keep up the awesome work!

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